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Have you ever wondered why you've been attracted to tall people your whole life?

Or maybe you just noticed a pattern in your dating history — say, the majority of your exes were super extroverted, or they all had dark hair and brown eyes. It might seem like a weird coincidence, but really, it all makes sense when you think about the science behind why we're attracted to some people but not others.

I reached out to Dr. Michele Kerulis of Counseling Northwestern to find out more about the science behind who we are — and are not — attracted to, and what factors go into attraction in the first place.

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And as she explains, a lot of attraction is psychological. Kerulis tells Elite Daily.

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As it turns out, a lot of factors go into what people find attractive in terms of romantic partners, and while sometimes your attractions are formed over Why can t i be pretty based on the people you date and your experiences with them, other times, attraction goes all the way back to when you were a Cape Filderstadt nude. So, here's what you need to know about the science behind attraction.

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Kerulis, attraction is often shaped by "our patterns of experiences in life, going back to early early childhood. Kerulis explains.

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For example, if a tall person comforted you in a time of distress when you were young, that could explain your attraction to tall people now. Kerulis says. We can say the same thing with hair color or facial features.

Of course, as Dr. Kerulis notes, even these preferences that formed in early childhood can change over time.

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That's because your life experiences and your experiences with partners once you start dating can also shape and change the qualities you're attracted to. For one thing, your experiences might lead you to not be attracted to qualities you used to find attractive. One major thing that tends to change as people get older, Dr.

Kerulis says, is how they feel about aloofness or a sense of mystery when it comes to dating someone. So as we get older, Ii think people are more attracted to clear, and honest communication without playing games. Physical characteristics are definitely a factor in attraction, but they're not the only factor — personality and charisma are important, too.

Or, they bs be another kind of neutral feeling, where you might not have that strong sexual attraction right away, but there's something about that individual which we might call charisma. As Dr.

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Kerulis notes, people also tend to be attracted to Why can t i be pretty person's presence in a room. Attraction works differently for different caj — as in, you might consistently be attracted to people who Mankato clothing stores total opposites of you, but your best friend might always date people who are very similar.

In any case, it's all totally normal — if you'd prefer to date someone who is the opposite of you and pushes you to Successful tinder profile new things, great. If you'd rather date someone who totally gets Why can t i be pretty because they're the same way, also great. It's about what you like and what works for you.

Like I said, it all depends on what you like — and that's because attraction is bbe subjective, Dr. That's why, Dr. Kerulis says, other people might not get exactly why you're attracted to a certain type of person — it's because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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Your maturity level plays a big part in attraction, too, even if you might not realize it. It's because the more mature you are, the more you tend to understand yourself — and that translates into how you look for a partner, too.

That changes as you start to mature, and you start to factor in a lot more in the attraction process. So it's going through that maturity process and understanding that we as individuals might function well together in a relationship. In any case, no matter who you're attracted to, Dr.

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Kerulis says it's important to reflect on what attraction means to you. Attraction isn't the only factor in a relationship, either — there's more to it, and just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean they're a good fit for you. By Brittney Morgan.

Despite common thinking, feeling more attractive and desirable may have little to do with your outward appearance. We consulted scientific. At a professional event a few years ago, a male journalist I'd just met told me I was lucky to be “pretty, but not too beautiful.” This meant I'd go far. I'm a smart, attractive something living in NYC and am miserably single. Thanks to my parents' golden gene pool I have no problems.

Some of our attractions go back to early childhood experiences. But our attractions can change over time, based on experience. And bee not just about the physical things.

Sometimes opposites attract, and sometimes like attracts like.

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Attraction is super subjective. And your maturity level is a huge factor. Does that mean that we're looking for somebody's physical characteristics?

Does that mean that we're looking for values an individual has? Does it mean that we're looking for someone who likes the same activities pdetty like to do, or someone who likes something completely different? About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy.